The Chinese phrases people actually say every day, organized by scene — greetings, small talk, feelings, meals and plans — each with pinyin, a one-line usage note and native teacher audio.
Greetings & Goodbyes 20
The openers and closers of every Chinese conversation. Get these right and every exchange starts and ends warmly — they are also the phrases you will say most often, every single day.
Swap in any time word before 见: 下周见 (see you next week).
16回头见Huítóu jiànSee you later
Literally "see you when I turn my head" — later the same day.
17一会儿见Yíhuìr jiànSee you in a bit
For partings of minutes, not hours — like "see you shortly."
18欢迎HuānyíngWelcome
Welcoming someone to your home, city or group.
19请进Qǐng jìnCome in
What you say when opening the door — 请 makes it politely inviting.
20请坐Qǐng zuòHave a seat
The host's phrase — offering a chair to any guest.
Thanks, Sorry & Politeness 19
Chinese politeness runs on a few workhorse phrases. Note the difference between a real apology (对不起) and a light social "excuse me" (不好意思) — mixing them up sounds overly dramatic.
No English equivalent — acknowledges someone's effort. Beloved by coworkers everywhere.
12打扰一下Dǎrǎo yíxiàExcuse me (interrupting)
Before interrupting someone busy — literally "let me disturb you a moment."
13借过一下Jièguò yíxiàExcuse me (passing through)
Squeezing through a crowd — literally "lend me a pass."
14拜托了Bàituō lePlease — I'm counting on you
Entrusting something important to someone, with feeling.
15别客气Bié kèqiDon't be so polite
Also "make yourself at home" — hosts say it constantly.
16帮我一下Bāng wǒ yíxiàGive me a hand
Casual help request between people who know each other.
17你能帮我吗?Nǐ néng bāng wǒ maCan you help me?
The full polite version — works with strangers too.
18需要帮忙吗?Xūyào bāngmáng maDo you need help?
Offering help — what you say when someone looks lost or overloaded.
19谢谢你的帮助Xièxie nǐ de bāngzhùThanks for your help
A complete-sentence thanks — good for texts and goodbyes after being helped.
Yes, No & Agreeing 18
Chinese has no single word for "yes" or "no" — you answer with the verb or one of these little response words. Master this set and you can keep any conversation moving.
Direct but acceptable — soften with 我觉得 (I feel) before it.
13你说得对nǐ shuō de duìYou're right
Conceding a point graciously — 得 marks how someone did something.
14有道理yǒu dàoliThat makes sense
Literally "has logic" — acknowledging a good point without full surrender.
15不一定bú yídìngNot necessarily
The polite pushback — questions an assumption without saying "wrong."
16可能吧kěnéng baMaybe
吧 adds a shrug — "I suppose it's possible."
17应该是yīnggāi shìProbably / should be
Confident-ish guessing — "that should be the case."
18差不多chàbuduōMore or less
A national catchphrase — close enough, almost done, roughly right.
Asking Questions 17
The question words you will reach for constantly: what, where, when, why, how much. Most drop into the sentence right where the answer would go — no word-order gymnastics needed.
1这是什么?Zhè shì shénmeWhat is this?
Point and ask — the fastest vocabulary builder there is.
2那是什么?Nà shì shénmeWhat is that?
这 = this (near you), 那 = that (over there).
3为什么?WèishénmeWhy?
Standalone or in a sentence — answers usually start with 因为 (because).
4什么时候?Shénme shíhouWhen?
Literally "what time" — asks about dates and times of events.
5在哪里?Zài nǎlǐWhere?
Attach to anything: 车站在哪里? (Where's the station?)
6谁?ShéiWho?
Pronounced shéi in conversation — 是谁? = "who is it?"
7怎么了?Zěnme leWhat's wrong?
Checking on someone who looks off — "what happened?"
8怎么办?Zěnme bànWhat should we do?
The go-to phrase when trouble strikes — half question, half sigh.
9你在干什么?Nǐ zài gàn shénmeWhat are you doing?
干 is the casual "do" — a constant text-message opener.
10现在几点?Xiànzài jǐ diǎnWhat time is it now?
几 asks for numbers — answers come as 三点 (3 o'clock) etc.
11今天星期几?Jīntiān xīngqī jǐWhat day is it today?
Weekdays are numbered in Chinese: 星期一 Monday … 星期天 Sunday.
12今天几号?Jīntiān jǐ hàoWhat's the date today?
号 = date of the month; answer like 五号 (the 5th).
13你有时间吗?Nǐ yǒu shíjiān maDo you have time?
The lead-in before asking a favor or suggesting plans.
THE meeting-up text message — 儿 gives it a northern ring.
15什么意思?Shénme yìsiWhat does it mean?
Ask about words, signs, or someone's cryptic remark.
16真的吗?Zhēn de maReally?
The universal surprised reaction — often just 真的?!
17怎么样?zěnme yàngHow is it? / How about it?
Asks for opinions or proposes plans: 明天怎么样? (How about tomorrow?)
When You Don't Understand 13
Your survival kit as a learner. Chinese speakers are famously patient with anyone who tries — one of these phrases plus a smile rescues almost any conversation.
1你会说英语吗?nǐ huì shuō yīngyǔ maDo you speak English?
会 = learned ability. Handy, but trying Chinese first wins hearts.
2我会说一点中文wǒ huì shuō yìdiǎn zhōngwénI speak a little Chinese
Say this and watch the compliments pour in — 一点 = a little.
Casual "huh?" — with rising tone it can sound shocked, mind the delivery.
Introducing Yourself 12
First-meeting essentials: names, hometowns, work. Chinese small talk gets personal faster than English — questions about age or family are friendly interest, not rudeness.
Follow with your name — Chinese speakers often offer a nickname too.
3认识你很高兴rènshi nǐ hěn gāoxìngNice to meet you
Said at first meetings, often with a handshake — order can flip: 很高兴认识你.
4你是哪国人?nǐ shì nǎ guórénWhat country are you from?
哪国 = which country. Expect this constantly as a foreigner.
5我是美国人wǒ shì MěiguórénI'm American
Swap the country: 英国人 British, 加拿大人 Canadian, 日本人 Japanese.
6你多大了?nǐ duō dà leHow old are you?
Normal small talk in China, not rude — for elders use 您多大年纪.
7你住在哪里?nǐ zhù zài nǎlǐWhere do you live?
Neighborhood chat — answer with a city or district, not your address.
8你做什么工作?nǐ zuò shénme gōngzuòWhat do you do for work?
Standard getting-to-know-you — 工作 covers job and career.
9我在学中文wǒ zài xué ZhōngwénI'm learning Chinese
在 marks ongoing action — instantly earns encouragement from locals.
10这是我朋友zhè shì wǒ péngyouThis is my friend
The simple introduction formula: 这是我 + person.
11怎么称呼您?zěnme chēnghu nínHow should I address you?
Extra-polite way to ask a name — great with elders and clients.
12常联系cháng liánxìKeep in touch
The warm goodbye after making a new friend — often said exchanging WeChats.
Feelings & Reactions 20
Quick, natural reactions — the difference between sounding like a textbook and sounding like a person. Sprinkle these into conversation and native speakers will light up.
1太好了tài hǎo leGreat!
太…了 wraps any adjective in enthusiasm — your default happy reaction.
2太棒了tài bàng leAwesome!
棒 (literally "stick") means great — a notch more excited than 太好了.
3真厉害zhēn lìhaiImpressive!
Praise for skill — the spoken equivalent of "you're amazing." Also just 厉害!
4好可爱hǎo kě'àiSo cute
For babies, pets, and anything adorable — 好 + adjective = "so ___."
5好漂亮hǎo piàoliangSo beautiful
Compliments things and people alike — scenery, dresses, photos.
6真有意思zhēn yǒu yìsiReally interesting / fun
有意思 = "has meaning" → interesting. A warm, common compliment.
7好玩儿hǎo wánrFun
Places and activities that are fun — 北京好玩儿吗? (Is Beijing fun?)
8无聊wúliáoBoring
Describes boring things AND being bored: 我好无聊 (I'm so bored).
9我喜欢wǒ xǐhuānI like it
Add the thing after it, or say it alone about what's in front of you.
10我不喜欢wǒ bù xǐhuānI don't like it
Direct but fine — Chinese speakers state preferences plainly.
想 = think of → miss. The staple of long-distance texts.
13你真好nǐ zhēn hǎoYou're so kind
Thanking someone's character, not just their act — warmer than 谢谢.
14我很开心wǒ hěn kāixīnI'm very happy
开心 = "open heart" — everyday happiness.
15我很难过wǒ hěn nánguòI'm very sad
难过 = "hard to pass" — how sadness feels in Chinese.
16太可惜了tài kěxī leWhat a pity
For missed chances and near-misses — "such a shame."
17真遗憾zhēn yíhànThat's a shame
A formal-leaning regret — condolences and serious disappointments.
18吓我一跳xià wǒ yí tiàoYou startled me!
Literally "scared me into a jump" — said with a hand on the chest.
19真倒霉zhēn dǎoméiWhat bad luck
倒霉 = down on luck — grumble it when the day goes wrong.
20原来如此Yuánlái rúcǐSo that's how it is
The "aha, now I see" phrase — clicks when a mystery resolves.
Encouragement & Concern 11
How Chinese speakers look after each other in words: cheering someone on, telling them to rest, reminding them to be careful. Saying these builds warmth fast.
Literally "put your heart down" — trust me, it's handled.
3别生气bié shēngqìDon't be angry
生气 = "generate qi" — calming someone down, or pre-apologizing.
4冷静一点lěngjìng yìdiǎnCalm down
冷静 = cool and quiet — for heated moments.
5加油JiāyóuYou can do it!
Literally "add oil!" — shouted at marathons, exams and life in general.
6小心XiǎoxīnWatch out
Warning word — 小心! (careful!) for wet floors and traffic alike.
7注意安全Zhùyì ānquánStay safe
The caring send-off — parents say it every time you leave.
8休息一下吧Xiūxi yíxià baTake a break
一下 softens any verb into "a little" — rest a little.
9我累了Wǒ lèi leI'm tired
The simple end-of-day confession — 累死了 = dead tired.
10我困了Wǒ kùn leI'm sleepy
困 is sleepy specifically — different from 累 (tired).
11保重BǎozhòngTake care
A heartfelt goodbye for longer partings — "look after yourself."
Opinions & Decisions 12
Agreeing on where to eat, what to do, who decides — these are the phrases that settle (or dodge) every small decision of daily life. 随便 alone will save you daily.
The famous answer to "what do you want to eat?" — friendly, or a trap.
2都可以dōu kěyǐEither is fine
都 = all/both — genuinely easy-going agreement to any option.
3看情况kàn qíngkuàngIt depends
"Look at the situation" — the diplomatic non-answer.
4没办法méi bànfǎNothing can be done
The shrug of Chinese life — resigned acceptance, said daily.
5算了suànleForget it
Dropping the matter — from mild (never mind) to huffy, by tone.
6好主意hǎo zhǔyiGood idea
Endorsing a plan — 主意 = idea.
7你觉得怎么样?nǐ juéde zěnmeyàngWhat do you think?
觉得 = feel/think — invites an honest opinion.
8我觉得很好wǒ juéde hěn hǎoI think it's good
The standard positive verdict — swap 很好 for any judgment.
9开玩笑的kāi wánxiào deJust kidding
开玩笑 = crack a joke — defuses anything you shouldn't have said.
10别开玩笑了bié kāi wánxiào leStop joking
"Be serious" — or disbelief: "you can't be serious!"
11相信我Xiāngxìn wǒTrust me
相信 = believe in — staking your credibility on it.
12别骗我Bié piàn wǒDon't lie to me
骗 = deceive — playful or serious depending on tone.
Meals Together 17
Food is the center of Chinese social life — 你吃饭了吗 even doubles as a greeting. These phrases cover eating with friends, from first bite to fighting over the bill.
1你吃饭了吗?nǐ chīfàn le maHave you eaten?
Doubles as "how are you" — the classic caring Chinese greeting.
Literally "dry the cup" — traditionally means bottoms-up, pace yourself.
17我不喝酒wǒ bù hējiǔI don't drink
A clear, accepted boundary at banquets — repeat as needed with a smile.
On the Way & Running Late 12
The real-time logistics of meeting up: I'm coming, almost there, stuck in traffic. Essential for texting — these are among the most-typed phrases on WeChat.
1等一下děng yíxiàWait a moment
The universal "hang on" — spoken and texted constantly.
2快点kuàidiǎnHurry up
Casual urging — for friends and family, not strangers.
3慢慢来mànman láiTake your time
The kind opposite of 快点 — no rush at all.
4别急bié jíNo rush
急 = anxious/urgent — calms an impatient person.
5我先走了wǒ xiān zǒu leI'm off / gotta go
The polite exit line — 先 (first) implies others may stay.
6我马上来wǒ mǎshàng láiI'll be right there
马上 = "on horseback" → immediately. Optimistic, like ETA texts everywhere.
7我来了wǒ lái leI'm coming
Answering a call or knock — "coming!"
8我到了Wǒ dào leI've arrived
The standard arrival text — two characters, infinitely useful.
9快到了Kuài dào leAlmost there
The most common (and most suspect) location update in China.
10我在路上Wǒ zài lù shangI'm on my way
在路上 = on the road — buys a few more minutes.
11堵车了Dǔchē leThere's a traffic jam
堵 = blocked — the eternal big-city excuse, usually true.
12迟到了Chídào le(I'm) late
迟到 = arrive late — pair with 不好意思 for the apology.
Making Plans & Keeping in Touch 12
Setting a plan, postponing it, and staying connected afterwards. In China everything runs on WeChat (微信), so 加个微信吧 is the modern "let's exchange numbers."
The two syllables that end every hangout decision — up, and out.
2出发吧Chūfā baLet's head out
出发 = set off — for trips and departures with intent.
3改天吧Gǎitiān baLet's do it another day
The soft postponement — sometimes sincere, sometimes a gentle no.
4下次吧Xià cì baMaybe next time
Declining this once while leaving the door open.
5约好了Yuēhǎo leIt's settled then
约 = arrange to meet — the plan is locked in.
6说定了Shuōdìng leIt's a deal
Stronger than 约好了 — no backing out now.
7就这样吧Jiù zhèyàng baLet's leave it at that
Wraps up discussions and phone calls — "so it's decided."
8别迟到Bié chídàoDon't be late
The friendly warning when making plans — 别 + verb again.
9打电话给我Dǎ diànhuà gěi wǒCall me
打电话 = "hit a phone call" — 打 is the verb for calls.
10我给你发微信Wǒ gěi nǐ fā WēixìnI'll message you on WeChat
发 = send — WeChat (微信) is how all of China communicates.
11加个微信吧Jiā ge Wēixìn baLet's add each other on WeChat
The modern "can I get your number" — expect a QR code scan.
12手机没电了Shǒujī méi diàn leMy phone is dead
没电 = no electricity — the 21st century's favorite excuse.
Small Talk & Good Wishes 17
Weather chat, festival greetings and the good wishes that decorate Chinese conversation. Set phrases like 新年快乐 are expected on the right occasion — locals will be delighted you know them.
1今天天气真好Jīntiān tiānqì zhēn hǎoThe weather is great today
Weather talk works in every language — 真 = really.
2今天很热Jīntiān hěn rèIt's hot today
Summer small talk — upgrade to 热死了 (dying of heat) for drama.
3今天很冷Jīntiān hěn lěngIt's cold today
The winter counterpart — 冷死了 when it's bitter.
4下雨了Xià yǔ leIt's raining
了 announces the new situation — "it's started raining."
5带伞了吗?Dài sǎn le maDid you bring an umbrella?
带 = carry along — everyday caring in question form.
6挺好的Tǐng hǎo dePretty good
挺…的 = quite ___ — the relaxed positive review.
7还行hái xíngIt's alright
Lukewarm approval — "passable, can't complain."
8听我说Tīng wǒ shuōListen to me
Getting the floor before explaining something — "hear me out."
9你先请Nǐ xiān qǐngAfter you
Doorway courtesy — 先 = first, 请 = please.
10有空常来Yǒu kòng cháng láiCome by whenever you're free