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How to Say “Please” in Chinese

qǐng
Please · trad. 請
A person politely offers a cup of tea to a guest in a home, illustrating “please” in Chinese: 请 (qǐng)

请 (qǐng) is a versatile word in Mandarin Chinese, commonly used to make polite requests, give invitations, or offer something, much like “please” in English. It often precedes a verb to soften a command or make a suggestion.

What does 请 (qǐng) mean?

请 (qǐng) means “please” in English. Word for word, it breaks down as “request / invite / ask.”

When to use it

Neutral and polite. It's appropriate in almost all situations. When asking a question, 请问 (qǐngwèn) is a very polite way to start. When inviting someone to do something or offering something, 请 is also used.

How to pronounce it

Sounds like “ching” with a rising tone (like asking a question).

Other ways to say it

  • 请问qǐngwènexcuse me, may I ask (polite way to start a question)
  • 请坐qǐngzuòplease sit
  • 请进qǐngjìnplease come in

Examples

请给我一杯水。
qǐng gěi wǒ yì bēi shuǐ.
Please give me a glass of water.
请问,火车站怎么走?
qǐngwèn, huǒchēzhàn zěnme zǒu?
Excuse me, how do I get to the train station?
请坐,别客气。
qǐngzuò, bié kèqi.
Please sit, don't be shy.
Pro tip: Unlike English “please” which can be at the beginning or end of a sentence, 请 almost always comes *before* the verb in Chinese. It also means 'to invite' or 'to treat', as in 我请客 (wǒ qǐngkè), 'it's my treat'.

Related phrases

不好意思 · Excuse me对不起 · Sorry谢谢 · Thank you
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