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How to Say “That's a shame” in Chinese

真遗憾
zhēn yíhàn
That's a shame · trad. 真遺憾
A friend offers condolences to another about a missed event, illustrating “that's a shame” in Chinese: 真遗憾 (zhēn yíhàn)

真遗憾 (zhēn yíhàn) is an expression of regret or pity, often used for serious disappointments or when offering condolences. It conveys a sense of genuine sorrow or unfortunate circumstances.

What does 真遗憾 (zhēn yíhàn) mean?

真遗憾 (zhēn yíhàn) means “that's a shame” in English. Word for word, it breaks down as “truly regretful.”

When to use it

Formal-leaning. It's suitable for expressing sympathy in serious situations or for significant disappointments. For a more casual 'what a pity,' you might use 可惜 (kěxī).

How to pronounce it

Sounds like “juhn ee-HAHN.” The first syllable is a high, flat tone, and the second syllable of 遗憾 is a rising tone, followed by a falling tone.

Other ways to say it

  • 可惜kěxīwhat a pity / unfortunately
  • 太可惜了tài kěxī lewhat a great pity!
  • 令人遗憾lìng rén yíhànregrettable (more formal, often in writing)

Examples

真遗憾,我不能参加你的婚礼了。
zhēn yíhàn, wǒ bù néng cānjiā nǐ de hūnlǐ le.
That's a shame, I can't attend your wedding.
听到这个消息,我真遗憾。
tīngdào zhège xiāoxi, wǒ zhēn yíhàn.
I'm truly sorry to hear this news.
他没能完成学业,真遗憾。
tā méi néng wánchéng xuéyè, zhēn yíhàn.
It's a real pity he couldn't finish his studies.
Pro tip: 真遗憾 is stronger and more formal than 可惜 (kěxī). Use it for situations that evoke genuine sorrow or significant regret, not minor inconveniences.

Related phrases

我很难过 · I'm very sad太可惜了 · What a pity吓我一跳 · You startled me
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