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How to Say “I like you” in Chinese

我喜欢你
wǒ xǐhuan nǐ
I like you · trad. 我喜歡你
A person shyly offers a small flower to another in a park, illustrating “I like you” in Chinese: 我喜欢你 (wǒ xǐhuan nǐ)

我喜欢你 (wǒ xǐhuan nǐ) is the most common and direct way to say “I like you” in Mandarin Chinese. It can express romantic interest, but also general fondness or appreciation for a person's qualities.

What does 我喜欢你 (wǒ xǐhuan nǐ) mean?

我喜欢你 (wǒ xǐhuan nǐ) means “I like you” in English.

When to use it

Neutral and direct. It's a common phrase for expressing affection. For stronger romantic feelings, use 我爱你 (wǒ ài nǐ, “I love you”). To express that you really like someone, you can add 很 (hěn, “very”): 我很喜欢你. When someone says this to you, a common reply might be 我也喜欢你 (wǒ yě xǐhuan nǐ, “I like you too”).

How to pronounce it

Sounds roughly like “wuh SHEE-hwahn nee.” The “wuh” and “shee” both have a dipping tone, “hwahn” is said lightly, and “nee” also has a dipping tone.

Other ways to say it

  • 我很喜欢你wǒ hěn xǐhuan nǐI really like you
  • 我爱你wǒ ài nǐI love you
  • 我喜欢wǒ xǐhuanI like it/them (object clear from context)

Examples

我喜欢你,你愿意做我女朋友吗?
wǒ xǐhuan nǐ, nǐ yuànyì zuò wǒ nǚpéngyou ma?
I like you, would you be my girlfriend?
我喜欢你,因为你很善良。
wǒ xǐhuan nǐ, yīnwèi nǐ hěn shànliáng.
I like you because you are very kind.
我喜欢你做的饭。
wǒ xǐhuan nǐ zuò de fàn.
I like the food you make.
Pro tip: 喜欢 (xǐhuan) is versatile; it means 'to like' and can be used for people, objects, or activities. While it can imply romantic interest, it's generally less intense than 爱 (ài, 'to love'). Also, remember tone sandhi: when multiple third tones like 我 (wǒ), 喜 (xǐ), and 你 (nǐ) appear together, their tones often change in natural speech for smoother pronunciation.

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